From Late-June until just after Labor Day we take a break from Chapter Fridays and gather every Friday for Summer Energy Fridays at Zucchero Cafe. It’s about doing life together, […]

Until 2007, the history of NCS New Canaan is the history of the New Canaan Society, because until 2007 we were NCS. As the “founding chapter” of NCS, we began in 1995 as a gathering of just three men in the New Canaan, CT family room of co-founder Jim Lane (that’s Jim in the pink NCS hat bearing NCS’s second logo) that originally called itself just the “Men’s Friday Group”. By 2007, it had become clear that what became NCS in 2001 was more than a local Connecticut phenomenon. Informal “chapters” had been springing up across the United States.
Beginning with our first meetings in September 2007, the activities of NCS in New Canaan became the “founding chapter” NCS New Canaan.
Below is a short video telling the history of the New Canaan Society.
What to Expect: Coffee, breakfast, and real talk with men “showing up” for each other.
Your Commitment by Attending: All men are welcome, but attendance represents a commitment to honor our gatherings as a “safe place”:
• Everything said here stays here.
• No judgment of others.
• Leave your job and work agenda (e.g., raising money, finding clients, selling a book, networking, etc.) at the door — come in as just a man “showing up” with a desire to go deeper in friendship and become a better husband, father and leader.
We are providing a “virtual” alternative for Chapter Fridays through ZOOM. Check the specific meeting in the Events Calendar for details and links.
What is NCS New Canaan all about?
We are about "honest community” — a community focused on helping each other experience personal transformation through our friendship with each other and with Jesus and helping each other become the husbands, father and leaders God intended us to be.
Our vision is about a community of brothers (or as we say, “brudders”) that is open, safe, honest and prayerful:
• Open (all men are welcome, regardless of denomination, vocation, income, past or present successes, failures, or sins)
• Safe (what is said here stays here, without judgment ever)
• Honest (we share the truth in safety and speak the truth in love–all with humility)
• Prayerful (we don’t change each other, but through prayer Jesus can use us as His instruments of change)
All of this is summarized in our credo (borrowed from Idylls of the King by Alfred, Lord Tennyson, describing the code of the knights of Camelot), “Live pure, speak truth, right wrong, follow the King,” and in our battle-cry (borrowed from Maximus), “As one!”
Live pure: We encourage and help each other to experience personal healing and transformation with Jesus and then act accordingly.
Speak truth: We encourage transparent friendships where we are open about ourselves and our weakness and are not afraid to speak truth to our friends to help them heal and become what God meant them to be.
Right wrong: We impact our families, communities, the marketplace and the world by doing what is right and standing openly against wrongs, even at risk to ourselves.
Follow the King: Everything we do honors and glorifies the name of Jesus and we seek to follow in His “Way”.
As One: Alone, we will easily be picked off. We can face anything in community with each other and Jesus.
We "show up" every Friday, alternating between Chapter Fridays and Energy Fridays from September to June. During the Summer, we shift to weekly Energy Fridays.
In addition, every year NCS brudders gather together in larger groups at either the National retreat weekend or at several regional retreats across the country. More information on regional or National events can be found on our website at www.newcanaansociety.org
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